#in case yall havent noticed. i've had a *bad* day today LMFAO

[demonic-shadowlucifer]

and you know what, since im here. can you people *please* stop tagging this as "proship". this post has *nothing* to do with being 'proship' or 'antiship' or even 'neutralship'. this was literally just a post telling people to not harass others. not every anti-harassment post is 'proship' related. also, i don't want to be associated with either group (proship or anti). and it makes me genuinely uncomfortable to be labeled as either group (especially considering i myself experienced harassment from proshippers in the past). i'll be blocking anyone that does this going forward.

thanks!

Things to do instead of sending people harassment/threats or suibait.

(PT: Things to do instead of sending people harassment/threats or suibait). ...because APPARENTLY we fucking need this post

-Block the person you're so angry at. -Scroll by the post that made you angry. -Log off the internet for a while. -Ask yourself why you think harassing people is okay. -Block them. -Grab a journal and write down what you were going to say and then block the person who pissed you off. -Did I mention blocking them yet? "But Shadow! This person sent ME that shit first! It's only fair" No it isn't. In that case you: -Block them. -Report them (if it's an anon ask though, just block. i don't think there's a way to report anons). "But Shadow! This person is a TERF/exclusionist/queerphobe! They deserve to be harassed!" -Block them. -Send them resources (no guarantee they'll listen but worth a try). -Report them if they're posting violent shit. "But Shadow! This person is a radqueer/MAP" -Again. *BLOCK* them. -Report them if they're posting really vile shit. -Redirect them to self-help resources (Yes, there's actually resources for those with paraphillias, including the big 3). "But Shadow! This person's racist/ableist/misogynistic!" -Check if they're being purposefully racist/ableist/misogynistic, if not, KINDLY ask them to maybe not do that™️ -If yes, block or report if needed. -Send resources (Again, no guarantee they'll listen)

notice how it's actually not hard to send people death threats or suibait or insults or-